Top 10 things I am looking for in a guy...

I have been doing some dating lately, and I am a confused mess. So I have decided to sit down and try to figure out what I need...what I want...and what I deserve...


10.I want a tough guy, who has a soft side. Someone that is alittle sensitive...but not so much that he acts like little girl.

9.Let me know you care about me...have TIME for me...Do little things to SURPRISE me...flowers, little notes, anything cute like that...

8.Cute...yeah, looks are not suppose to matter...but I need to have that attraction. I want to be able to smile when I see your cute face smiling at me.

7.Knows how to enjoy life, and doesn't spend his life worrying...especially about things we have no control over.

6.Spontaneous..I need someone that will do things at a moments notice. Someone that doesn't think it's weird to go to the beach at 10pm...just because...

5.Someone that takes care of them self. I am not looking for Mr. America, but I can't be with someone that is fat and sloppy.

4.Be able to support your self...Not support ME, I take care of my shit...BUT be able to take care of yourself. I have 2 kids, I do not need a third.

3.Someone with Opinions...any opinions... What do you want to eat? Where do you want to go?? What do you think I should do about this situation??? Any answer (besides "I don't know, what do you want to do") will work. Just show me you have a brain...and it functions.

2.Treat my kids right. Understand that my kids are always gonna be number 1, and that me and them are a package deal.


1.Sense of Humor...hands down...number 1, I need someone that makes me laugh. Not only make me laugh, but has the same weird crazy sense of humor I have.